Listen up, there are 20 things you must never do as an Alpha male.

Men! If you think you’re on your way to becoming an Alpha, then that’s good news. But don’t get it twisted—you’re not there yet. You’re hustling, grinding, and adding value to your life, but there are some things you absolutely MUST never do if you want to hold that Alpha status. Being an Alpha isn’t just about dominance; it’s about control, respect, and never bending to weakness. You’re the man in charge, not some pushover letting life dictate your terms. You dictate the terms.

There are 20 things you must never do if you want to stay at the top of the game as an Alpha male. This isn’t for the faint-hearted, so if you can’t handle it, step aside. This is brutal, no-nonsense, and painfully honest. Let’s dive in.

1. Never hit a wman first—but if she swings, she’s not a wman anymore. Defend yourself with fierceness.

Let’s get one thing straight: Real men don’t go around hitting w*men. You’re above that. But if she’s foolish enough to raise her hand against you first, she’s crossed the line. The moment she strikes, she’s forfeited her claim to be treated like a lady. An Alpha knows when to defend himself and doesn’t shy away from the confrontation when it’s forced upon him. But never be the one to initiate violence—that’s a sign of weakness. You stay cool, composed, and ready to protect yourself. She created the situation, and you finish it if necessary. Just make sure you’re justified—no one’s calling you out for defending yourself, but being the aggressor? That’s weak.

2. Never tell a lie. Lies are for weak men. You don’t need to hide the truth—stand by it.

Here’s the deal: lying is for cowards. If you need to lie to get through life, you’ve already lost. Weak men lie because they can’t face the consequences of their actions. They’re scared. And you’re not a scared little boy. You face things head-on, no matter how difficult they are. Being an Alpha is about having the backbone to stand by your word, to say what needs to be said, and to let the truth set you free. Lies only trap you in a web you can’t escape. People will respect you for your honesty, even if it’s brutal. And if they don’t? Who cares—you’re not living for their approval. You answer only to yourself.

3. Stay sober. Never smke, drink excessively, or use drgs. An Alpha is always in control of his mind.

Intoxication is for the weak. Think about it: when you sm*ke, drink to excess, or get high, you’re giving up control. You’re saying, “I can’t handle my life, so I need a crutch.” That’s not the Alpha way. An Alpha man is in control of his thoughts, emotions, and actions 24/7. He doesn’t need to alter his state of mind to feel good about himself. You think powerful men are out here slurring their words and stumbling around drunk? Absolutely not. They’re sharp, focused, and always one step ahead. If you’re going to run the game, you need a clear head. Your mind is your greatest weapon—don’t dull it.

4. Never take money from a w*man. That’s too low for you.

Listen carefully: taking money from a w*man is beneath you. If you ever take her money, understand this—you’ve just surrendered your power. She’ll never let you live it down, and from that point forward, she owns you. She’ll talk down to you, and you’ll never get her respect back. A man who relies on a wman financially is no man at all. You need to make your own way, always. Be a provider, not someone who’s provided for. Alpha males aren’t looking for handouts, especially not from wmen. You build your empire; you don’t leech off someone else’s.

5. Never devirgin a wman you’re not married to. A wman’s virginity is sacred.

This might make some of you uncomfortable, but it’s the truth. A w*man’s virginity is the most valuable gift she can give her husband. If you take it and you’re not ready to commit, you’re devaluing that gift for her and for the man she eventually marries. You want to be an Alpha? Then understand the power of restraint. Self-control is power. It’s easy to take something because it’s offered to you—but a real man knows when to hold back. Respect the value of something sacred. If she’s giving it away easily, she’s not respecting herself, and you shouldn’t either.

6. Never get broke. A man without money isn’t an Alpha.

Let’s be brutally honest: broke men don’t get respect. If you don’t have your finances in order, people aren’t going to take you seriously. You need money to protect yourself, to influence situations, and to make moves. A man without financial stability is a man without options. Being an Alpha is about being in control of your life—and without money, you’re at the mercy of others. Always have something going on—never be in a position where you’re dependent on someone else.

7. Be a good man, but never displease yourself to please a w*man.

Here’s a hard truth: W*men will never truly appreciate a man who bends over backward to please them. You think you’re scoring points by doing everything for her? Wrong. She’ll see you as weak, and once she sees you as weak, it’s over. She’ll never respect you again. Be a good man, but never, ever, sacrifice your dignity or self-respect to make her happy. You think that by making her happy, she’ll be loyal and grateful? No. She’ll blame you for being a fool. Don’t ever be that fool.

8. Never elevate or over-invest in a w*man. She will lose respect for you.

Hypergamy is real, and you better understand it. W*men are always looking for the next best thing. If you elevate her too much, she’ll start seeing herself above you, and she’ll start looking for a man that matches her newfound status. This is the biological game, and it’s been played for centuries. Invest in yourself, not her. The more you build her up, the quicker she’ll leave you behind. Always be the man she’s trying to catch up to, not the one pushing her forward.

9. Never spend a kobo on a w*man you’re not married to. You’re not a rehabilitation center.

You are not a charity for broke w*men. If she’s coming to you with her hand out, asking for favors, money, or gifts—cut her off immediately. Until a w*man earns her place in your life, she gets nothing. You don’t build her up, you don’t pay her bills, you don’t fund her lifestyle. An Alpha man doesn’t waste his resources on anyone who hasn’t proven their worth. You aren’t here to fix someone’s life—you’re here to build your own empire.

10. Never elevate your wife above your mother.

Your mother is the wman who raised you, who gave you life. **No wman, not even your wife, comes before her.** You think by elevating your wife, you’re doing the right thing? Wrong. The moment your wife sees you putting her above your own mother, she’ll start losing respect for you. Your wife is your partner, but your mother is the foundation of your life. Keep your priorities in check, or you’ll lose both.

11. Never tolerate disrespect from any w*man. Set boundaries and enforce them.

Respect is non-negotiable. The moment a wman crosses a boundary, she’s testing you. And if you let her get away with it, she’ll never respect you again. Disrespect isn’t something you overlook; it’s something you crush immediately. Set your boundaries, make them clear, and enforce them without hesitation. If she crosses a line, there are consequences. Alpha males don’t tolerate disrespect from anyone, especially not wmen. You think letting it slide will make her love you more? Wrong. She’ll see you as weak, and you’ll lose control of the situation.

12. Never lose focus on your goals. Love with your brain, not your heart.

You think falling in love means losing yourself in someone else? Think again. You love a w*man with your brain, not your heart. Your goals come first, always. If you start letting emotions cloud your judgment, you’re setting yourself up for failure. A man who puts his emotions before his purpose isn’t a man in control. You are in control. Your goals, your ambitions, your purpose—these are the things that matter. W*men will come and go, but your legacy is permanent.

13. Never take back a w*man who left you because she thought you weren’t good enough.

She left you because she thought she could do better? Good riddance. You don’t take back a w*man who threw you away in your lowest moments. The same way she bounced on you in her prime, you make sure to bounce her when you’re at the top. No second chances. Once someone has shown you that you weren’t good enough for them, keep it that way. She made her choice—now live with it.

14. If you’ve never taken a w*man’s virginity, don’t marry one who’s not a virgin.

Here’s a truth that stings: if you haven’t had the honor of being her first, don’t settle for less. Virginity is something sacred, something that should be shared between a man and his wife. If she’s given it to someone else, she’s already devalued the bond she could have had with you. Why should you settle for a w*man who’s given her best away? You’re worth more than that.

15. Never marry a w*man who claims to have “repented.” She won’t change.

She says she’s changed, that she’s a new wman? Don’t believe it. Once a wman has crossed certain lines, she’s just playing the game. She’s not truly repentant; she’s just looking for a new opportunity. You can’t fix a w*man who wasn’t raised right from the start. If her own father couldn’t guide her, what makes you think you can?

16. Never marry a w*man without a father figure. She has daddy issues.

Wmen without strong father figures are damaged. They lack the respect and discipline a man brings into a household. These wmen often have deep-rooted issues that manifest in narcissism, self-centeredness, and chaos. You can’t fix her. Don’t even try. You’ll be wasting your time, and you’ll pay for it emotionally, mentally, and financially.

17. If she keeps male friends, she belongs to the streets.

Let me make this clear: no w*man who truly respects you will keep male friends. Male friends are backup plans. They’re there for when things go south, for when she needs a little validation on the side. If she’s got male friends, she’s comparing you to them. She’s taking advice from them. And worse—she’ll cheat the moment things get tough.

18. Never marry a broke w*man.

A broke wman is a wman with nothing to offer but her dependency. She’s not looking for love, she’s looking for a meal ticket. The moment your money runs out, she’s gone. The same goes for materialistic wmen. If her focus is on what she can get from you, she’ll be out the door as soon as the well dries up. **You need a wman who can stand on her own, who adds to your life, not drains it.**

19. Never be with a w*man who lacks accountability.

If a wman can’t take responsibility for her own actions, she’ll blame you for everything. She’ll blame you for her past, her mistakes, even her family’s problems. You’ll become the scapegoat for her entire life. That’s a burden you don’t need to carry. A wman who can’t own her own faults will never help you grow—she’ll only drag you down.

20. Never ignore red flags during dating.

You see a red flag? Don’t ignore it. W*men don’t change. If she’s showing you signs of trouble early on, it’s only going to get worse. You’re not going to fix her, and she’s not going to magically become a better person. Walk away while you can. An Alpha doesn’t settle for damaged goods—he keeps his standards high and his eyes wide open.

That’s it, Men. Take this to heart. These aren’t suggestions; they’re rules. Rules for life, rules for success, rules for maintaining your Alpha status. Play the game smart, stay sharp, and never let anyone knock you off your path. You’re an Alpha in the making—so start acting like one, or step aside for the real ones. The choice is yours.