My marriage is 11 years old, eight years ago My mother called me and My Husband and gave us the documents of 50 by 100 plots of land that she bought very long time ago that she could not build and ask us to go and build because she has many properties and she don’t have many children. My husband accepts the land in present of my mom, but when we got home he told his relative about the land although I don’t know the kind of advice they give to him Because we are leaving in a family house .when it was time for us to start the building My Husband refused to carry on with the project when I ask him he said he cannot build the land from my mother. Then I asked why? he said he cannot build a house on his in-law’s land. because of that he did not assist me in anyway when I started the project the only day he step is fits on the land was the day I laid a foundation, and he did not even spent up to two hours he left Saying he was going to meeting . three years after which is five years ago I completed the building which was two apartments. We are living in his father‘s house a room and a parlor with my four kids, making it six of us in a room passage house.😭😭 I asked My Husband that we park into the house, He said he cannot park into the house He did not build that nobody is driving him from his father‘s house 💔and we have been in his father‘s house since 11 years now Three years ago My Husband bought a piece of land. I only followed him to that land the very day he  lay foundation up till now as we are speaking the work is still on feeling level he could not complete it . why I have tenants on my two apartment and I am still living in a passage house with my kids Right now . My Husband is now complaining that I did not want to assist him to build his house. Meanwhile, he is not begging me to assist. He is just commanding me that it is my duty as a wife to assist him because he know I has the money so I refused, and my reason is that he did not assist me while I was building my house, instead I better remain in this one room down to assist him in building his house . last year. I bought another piece of land 100 by 100 and there has been war in my marriage right now. My marriage is about to end because I did not assist him and I want to start another projects. please Ma what do I do??? sorry for the long post. please ma I will be at the comment section🙏